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Thursday, October 27, 2011
To All My Blogging Friends
Some of you might have already known about my marital struggles, particularly in the last six months. However, just like most things in life, there comes a time when you have to make a decision. It was not a decision that was easy to make, but I believed it was for the best, given what has happened despite efforts from both sides in the last few months. I have decided to separate from my husband.
To consciously end a twelve year-relationship with someone you love is painful, and to me it feels like a certain death. For this reason, I hope you would understand that for the next few days (or weeks) I might not be able to blog as I normally would. Writing has been cathartic to me, and the love and support that I've received from all my friends here in the blogging world have carried me a long way in giving me the much-needed strength and convictions. But as of right now, I am finding it difficult to write about anything really.
Please know that your friendships mean so much to me, and that it is my sincere hope that you all would still be here when I return. I'm very much aware that in blogging, you have to give as much as you take. I apologize beforehand if for the time being I am unable to 'give' as much as I 'take.' Rest assured, I have not, and will not forget all my blogging friends during my hiatus.
If I may, I'd like to ask you to leave me a note, anything... here in the comments form. I may or may not reply, I don't know, but for sure I will read it and it will mean SO much to me. It doesn't matter if you've already commented before, please feel free to come back and leave me a message to let me know that I have not lost your friendship. Even if it's just to say the same thing all over again. Know that your words give me the comfort and strength that I very much need to get through this difficult time.